Emir is a handsome boy. He is so charming at his age of 6+ years. I am so proud of him. He could be so adorable. But I had spoilt him in some ways being my youngest baby. He hit his sister occosionally when fighting and seems to be unable to tolerate one of the neighbour friends.
I am worried about his behaviour and now I am quite determined to stop the hitting of the sister and fighting with one of the boys. In school, he didn't seem to have this problem.
I read about how to instill good characters in children. This has been my fault of not being able to instill tolerance and coping with frustration. Who could he depend on to teach him if not on his parents. I have overlooked this matter.
Sometimes, I am too harshed on him and sometimes too lenient. I am not consistent. I need to train him with values that will help him to cope with the world when he grows up. He needs to prepare himself with characters that make him internally strong and with values that make him a good person.
Hitting and yelling a child will not him emotionally as he feels he's being wronged. I need to make him undertsand what, why and how of life and teach him acceptable reasonings and communication. Emir, mummy love you.